Wills, Trusts & Divorce: How to Legally Protect Your Family After Divorce | Elizabeth Neyens

Update: 2025-05-28

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Think estate planning is only for the wealthy or the retired? Think again. If you’re divorced (or about to be), this episode is essential listening.

In this empowering episode of The Crazy Ex-Wives Club, host Erica sits down with estate planning attorney Elizabeth Neyens to unravel the legal, emotional, and practical sides of protecting your assets—and your kids—after divorce.

From updating your will to avoiding accidental inheritance disasters (like your ex managing your child’s money—yikes), this episode clears the fog on what estate planning really is, when you need it, and why waiting can cost you big.

Elizabeth breaks down the difference between wills and trusts, what documents every parent needs in place by age 18, and how to build a plan that puts you in control. Whether you're fresh out of a marriage or simply overdue for an update, this conversation will help you move from overwhelmed to organized.

Because protecting your peace means planning for the things we don’t want to think about—before they become emergencies.

🔑 Key Themes & Takeaways:

Why Estate Planning Isn’t Just for the Elderly – How divorce changes your legal responsibilities and what to update ASAP.

Don’t Let Your Ex Control the Money – What happens if you don’t choose a guardian or custodian for your child’s inheritance.

Will vs. Trust – Understanding the difference and knowing when a trust might serve you better.

Legal Docs Every Adult Needs – The 3 documents you should have by the time you (or your kid) turns 18.

Skip the Online Templates – Why DIY estate planning misses critical protections you won’t know until it’s too late.

We talk about:

00:00 Introduction

01:48 Emotional Turmoil of Divorce

04:21 Transition from Family Law to Estate Planning

06:24 Understanding Estate Planning

08:39 Timing and Importance of Estate Planning

18:29 Trusts and Their Benefits

20:39 Finding the Right Estate Planner

22:08 Special Offer and Final Thoughts

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Learn More About This Week’s Guest: Elizabeth Neyens

Elizabeth is the Owner & Attorney at Neyens Law. She has assisted hundreds of families with their estate planning needs. Following a successful sales career, Elizabeth Neyens attended law school to pursue a profession that would provide an opportunity for her to help solve families’ problems during difficult times. Her holistic approach to planning is intended to protect assets and preserve relationships. Elizabeth is known for her warm personality and ability to simplify complex legal concepts.

Elizabeth graduated from William Mitchell College of Law. She currently practices in Oakdale, Minnesota, primarily in the areas of estate planning and probate, which are two areas that involve family transitions, challenging circumstances, thoughtful decisions, and careful planning. Elizabeth aims to be not only a legal advocate, but also a calming influence.

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